Episodes

October 13, 2021

Ep 39 - Am I The Asshole? v2

In this episode, Leigh and Reets catch up and share some home truths about different life stressors and how they each are dealing with them. Am I The Asshole? Is also back by popular demand, and the girls discuss: Non-carryin...

September 29, 2021

Ep 38 - Ellie Blackburn

In this episode, Leigh interviews Western Bulldogs AFLW Captain Ellie Blackburn and chats all things football, love and family. Hear them chat about... Ellie's special relationship with her Nan Her stand out career highlights...

September 08, 2021

Ep 37 - What The IVF? Reunion

In this episode, Reets brings back two of our favourite guests, Hayley Willis and Fiona Falkiner to discuss what life is like now as parents to their beautiful baby boy. Hear them chat about: Fee's amazing birth experience wi...

August 11, 2021

Ep 36 - Falling in Love

In this episode, Reets and Leigh are back talking all things L.O.V.E loveeee. I wonder why... Hear the girls chat about: The three different types of love in one's lifetime: the 'early/baby' love, the 'growth' love, and the '...

August 04, 2021

Ep 35 - Lesbian Couples Counselling with Dr Lynda Spann

In this episode, Reets chats to licensed Couples Counsellor and the Founder of the Lesbian Couples Institute, Dr. Lynda Spann. Hear Lynda answer some questions specific to our queer community that came through from our listen...

July 20, 2021

Ep 34 - Lockdown Edition

In this episode, the girls catch up on life and chat about all things: Melbourne (and NSW) lockdown edition 5.0 - the good, the bad and the ugly! Reets' quick but wholesome visit to Perth, and A serious issue impacting LGBTIQ...

June 30, 2021

Ep 33 - Booze, Babes & Bad Decisions

In this episode, the girls are back to chat about their evolving relationship with alcohol, the bad decisions they made along the way and the babes that came along for the ride. Hear them chat about: Leigh's sobriety journey ...

June 23, 2021

Ep 32 - Queer Representation & Inclusion with Kath Ebbs

In this episode Reets chats to model, influencer and proud queer feminist Kathleen Ebbs on a range of topics including: Finding self assurance during a break up The importance of having queer representation & inclusion in soc...

June 10, 2021

Ep 31 - Bonus Episode

We promised you a bonus episode and here it is! Reets and Leigh catch up on life after a few months off from recording to discuss: A random 'Am I the asshole?' question that divides the girls All the gay news in Australia at ...

May 05, 2021

Ep 30 - Leigh's Home Birth Story

In the last episode of Season 2, Leigh is back for a cameo appearance to tell us all about her beautiful home birth experience. Hear her speak about: - How this home birth with Oli compared to her first hospital birth with Oak - Just how important Taylah was during the whole process, and - The ins and outs of the drug-free active labour Plus all the 'juicy' bits guaranteed to get a few laughs when the girls talk about about mucus plugs, poo and placentas!

April 21, 2021

Ep 29 - Dating Advice and Hard Truths

In this episode, Reets flies solo and answers some listener questions on: - Dating someone who is in the closet, - Dealing with dealbreakers, and - The awkward world of dating She also goes on a random rant about gratitude, self worth and taking responsibility for your own energy. Apologies in advance.

April 14, 2021

Ep 28 - Half Him Half Her (with Stephanie Vaughan)

In this episode, Reets interviews an old friend with a very special story about gender and identity.
 It has often been said that Gender is who you go to bed 'as', whereas Sexuality is who you go to bed 'with'. But what happens if you are born 'intersex' and sit somewhere in between male and female; And what if you happened to learn, more than five decades later, that you had modifying surgery when you were born to to make you male... but you felt more female? That is the case of Stephanie Vaughan from Busselton Western Australia. Hear Steph's incredible journey which she captures in her recently released book, 'Half Him Half Her'. NB: Trigger warning, this episode covers the topic of suicide and self harm. If you are feeling distressed or need to talk to someone please contact Lifeline on 13 11 14.

April 07, 2021

Ep 27 - Growing Up Gay in Malta (ft. Martha Gatt)

In this episode Reets chats to Martha Gatt - a gay Me For Her fan from Malta on what it was like growing up gay in the 10th smallest country in the world. And by small - I mean their whole country's population is the same size as Tasmania! Hear them talk about: - Martha's 'G-ourney' a.k.a Gay Journey - Coming out to European parents and getting kicked out of home - How many swipes it takes to have 'no more matches' in Malta - The podcast she started to help others All this and more in this episode of the Me For Her podcast - Maltese edition!

March 31, 2021

Ep 26 - Friendships, Fall Outs and Forgiveness

In the last episode before Leigh takes mat leave, the girls speak about the wonderful topic of friendships. Hear them discuss: - Then & Now friends - from Primary school to high school and beyond - Single friends and the issues that can arise when one gets taken off the market - New mums and the challenges they face when their friends without kids 'just don't get it' - Friendship fall outs, and how to work your way back from a fight! **EDIT: Leigh has since given birth to a beautiful baby girl Oli! This ep was recorded a week before she popped xx**

March 24, 2021

Ep 25 - Jaryd Cachia

In this episode, Reets chats to the first official Me For Her Male guest - former Carlton AFL player and dad of two Jaryd Cachia. Hear him talk about: - Combatting toxic masculinity in a modern world - How growing up with a single mum shaped the man he is today - What he said to his ex-wife Sophie when she told him she was attracted to women, and - How all men should learn to listen to and empower the women in their lives. All this, plus more on Jaryd's career and passion for women's sport in episode 25.

March 10, 2021

Ep 24 - Mardi Gras & LGBTIQ+ Pride Special

In light of Mardi Gras last weekend, the girls catch up and reflect on their fav Mardi experiences over the last decade. Hear about: - Their best Mardi memories to date (and the token lesbian tattoo Leigh got) - The history ...

March 03, 2021

Ep 23 - Long Distance Lovesbians (ft. Char & Jess)

In this episode, the girls catch up with Aussie babe Charlotte Hanson and American wrestler Jessica Fresh to hear all about their long distance relationship. Tune in to hear the girls discuss: - Who moved countries first, and when to take the jump - The hardest thing about a long distance relationship, and - The crucial advice they would give to anyone in the same boat! Char and Jess get married this month, and we wish them all the happiness in the world! xx

February 25, 2021

Ep 22 - Gratitude, Scripting & The Law of Attraction

In this rambling episode, Leigh and Reets talk about their respective meltdowns this week (one was cold-sore inducing), and they also delve into their beliefs on manifesting your desires into reality. Hear them talk about: - How being grateful for what you already have can raise your vibration - The Law of Attraction - what it is and how it works - Scripting - the art of manifesting on paper! Reets also declares that she is no longer spending hours editing each episode - so welcome to the new and uncut version of the Me For Her pod! It's imperfectly perfect, (with us talking over eachother + some 3 second silences #soz).

February 21, 2021

Ep 21 - What The IVF? with Hayley and Fiona (Part 2)

In Part 2, the girls continue their conversation with Hayley Willis and Fiona Falkiner on all things pregnancy, breastfeeding and more, including: - The ultimate decision, a known donor or an unknown donor? - Fi’s pregnancy journey so far, and - Will Hayley (the non-carrying parent) consider breastfeeding? All this and more in the final instalment of this two-part series.

February 17, 2021

Ep 20 - What The IVF? with Hayley and Fiona (Part 1)

In today's episode we talk to power couple Hayley and Fiona from the What The IVF? Podcast. Look familiar? Fiona Falkiner is a former Biggest Loser contestant & host, and Hayley Willis is a sports reporter for Channel Nine. They are engaged to be married and are expecting their first child in March 2021. Hear us talk to the girls about... - Coming out and pursuing their attraction to women - Who slid into who's DM's and how they got together - The highs and lows of their IVF Fertility journey ...all this and more in Part 1. NB: This is a two-part series. Part 2 will be released on Monday 22nd February, 2021.

February 10, 2021

Ep 19 - We're Backkkkk ft. Life Updates

Reets and Leigh are BACK for Season 2 of the Me For Her Pod with life updates on what you've missed in the last couple of months. Hear all about... - Leigh's pregnancy update (she's huge now) - Reets drops a bomb on Leigh - Who is the a**hole in Reets' story? AND - Find out who our first guest is for 2021! NB: This episode was recorded a little while ago. Some edits were made to to hide the identity of the individuals mentioned in our story. We honestly wish them all the best and are glad they are working things out. Love you, BYEEEEE x

February 07, 2021

Season 2 - Coming Soon!

New Intro, but your two fave lesbo's are coming back for Season 2 very soon...

December 16, 2020

Ep 18 - 2020 Wrap Up

In the final episode of Season 1, Leigh and Reets wrap up the year that was and discuss... - The Aussie Bushfires, COVID and it's effect on us all - Our low lights, highlights and lessons learnt along the way, and - A very personal story from Leigh that she's never shared publicly PLUS, our first Competition! There are two ways to enter: 1) Leave us a review for us on Apple Podcasts and send us a screenshot, or 2) Share your favourite episode from Season 1 onto your socials and tag us to be in the draw. Two entries for both. >>> The winner will be announced on Christmas Eve and will receive an exclusive Me For Her Hoodie in Grey. We love you and can't wait to be back for Season 2 in late January 2021.

December 13, 2020

Ep 17 - Sophie Cachia (Part 2)

In this episode the girls continue their real, open and honest conversation with Sophie Cachia In Part 2, we chat to Sophie about: - Her first experience with a woman - The moment she knew she was attracted to females - Depression, the gay community, parenting and more... Plus Sophie's advice to anyone who might realise they are same-sex attracted at any stage in life!